Attention:

Attention is one of the most basic needs of men and women of all age groups. When this need is not fulfilled, problems start. Then to gain attention, people play games, and love starts to distort in all kinds of relationships, be it parent child, lovers, friends…

Hence the most common complaint is : He or she does not give me quality time.

When a child is born, or when the spouse is busy building up the business or climbing the ladder at work place (his or her second or should I say 1st baby), attention to each other reduces…

If one is aware of this, then a concious effort can be made to give positive attention to the spouse as a way of nourishing the relationship.